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A Prayer to Break Destructive Family Patterns

Mar 23, 2026

How to Use This Prayer to Break Patterns

In a family, you inherit characteristics and tendencies.  Eye color, height, hair color, and personality temperaments often run in families. You may have noticed tendencies or problems that run in a family.  For many reasons, there can be dysfunction (divorce, addiction, abuse, etc.) that can plague a family for generations.  Prayer is an effective way to bring your concerns to the Lord.  Although prayer is not a substitute for the treatment of a problem,  we know that prayer that uses the word of God can break spiritual strongholds that may hold certain patterns in place across generations.

Pray Using the Word of God

Here is a prayer from my book “Correcting Distortions in Your View of God“.  It is based on Scriptures (listed below).

Lord, You created family and intended them to be a source of joy and safety.  Through the generations, Your plan has been corrupted and families pass down bad things as well as the good You intended.   I pray this prayer, Lord, to cleanse anything I have done or inherited through my family line.  I want my children and myself to be free from destructive patterns.

I repent on behalf of my family line, on both sides, as far back as You can see, Lord.  I repent for breaking commandments where we did not put You first, used Your name as a curse, worshipped false gods, failed to honor the Sabbath, rebelled against parents, caused violence, lied, stole, or committed sexual sin.  I repent for myself and on behalf of my family for secret sins, secret vows, and occult practices that You call an “abomination” in Your word (Exodus 20:1-17).

I renounce those practices, sins, and the addictions in my life and in my family line.  I ask for You to apply the shed blood of Jesus (Exodus 12:21-24, Isaiah 53:4-12) to cover those sins. I thank You for dying on the cross, voluntarily, so that we have Your resurrection power to break these patterns that have passed from generation to generation.

Prayer to Break Destructive Family PatternsI worship You as the only true God.  I ask You to continue to draw each of us closer to You, Lord Jesus. I ask You to fill our eyes with Your light (Psalm 36:9, Ephesians 1:18) and draw each of us to Your path of life (Psalm 16:11). Thank You, Jesus, that You are releasing all the blessings that You originally designed for our family.  Amen.

I would encourage you, when you pray for your family, to keep praying positive Scripture (such as Psalm 36:9; Psalm 91; Ephesians 1:18; and Psalm 16:11)  for each of them.  God honors His word (Jeremiah 1:12).

This prayer is taken from my book  “Correcting Distortions in Your View of God” available on Amazon.