Books

Transform Your Life and Build Your Coping Skills

Many women lose their sense of identity after rejection, intense stress, or trauma. All of Dr. Cooper’s audiobooks, self-help books, and devotionals are designed to help you move past the things that have held you back so that you can take charge of your life in a healthy way. You can learn the practical steps of how to establish firmer boundaries, build a more positive sense of self, and deepen your connection to God. These tips and strategies help women unload baggage and become “Fully Alive”.

Self Help Books

Anxiety, Depression & Helplessness

Keys to BREAK FREE

This book examines the impact that uncontrollable stress has on our coping skills. Chapters look at the dynamics behind anxiety, depression, boundary problems, passivity, helplessness, perfectionism, procrastination, and poor self-confidence. Practical suggestions will help you change old ways of thinking and unproductive patterns in order to be more satisfied with your coping and your life. This book is available for you as a paperback or in a hardcover format.

Life WITHOUT Baggage

A Faith-Based Workbook

Many people want to release the baggage from the past, but don’t know how. Life Without Baggage is a workbook that explains the layers of emotional baggage that can accumulate and the practical steps to move forward. This Christian book illuminates how to identify the hooks (such as attachments, rejection, judgments, and false worship) that hold lingering baggage in place. This workbook will help you:

1. RECOGNIZE the known and unknown sources of your baggage,
2. RELEASE the layers through strategic prayer, and
3. REBUILD your life with the principles of Scripture. (By the way, my podcast is named after this book.)

Correcting Distortions In Your View of God

How to Unload Baggage that Blocks Your Vision

Correcting Distortions In Your View of God: How to Unload Baggage that Blocks Your Vision helps you understand why you may have trouble feeling close to God even though you are trying your best to follow Him. Many women of faith live with nagging feelings that they aren’t doing enough to please God which results in chronic guilt. This book explains how to 1. RECOGNIZE Distortions, 2. RELEASE Barriers, and 3. BUILD a solid faith based on relationship rather than duty. The book explores the roots of some common distortions: perfectionism, rejection, dysfunctional families, trauma, or legalistic experiences with church. There are quizzes and questions to help you recognize your personal distortions. I have included prayers that have helped women release their distortions. The last sections of the book explain how to build a solid foundation of faith that is not based on guilt or religious duty but on connection to Jesus Christ and His invitations to approach Him for what you need.

Bible Study Books

Breaking Through to Blessing

Breaking Through to Blessing is a Bible study that explores the keys taught by Jesus to help you break through into the supernatural peace, love, and power of God. Chapters focus on the interactions with Mary and Martha as they grieved the death of Lazarus. Each lesson in this Bible study examines how you can build a more confident level of faith, maintain a more accurate concept of God, progress past heartache, and accelerate your spiritual progress. These keys move you from routine religion into a lifestyle of supernatural blessing. This Christian book helps you learn to read the Bible and examine its truth in a way that promotes strength and maturity. It can be used in a group or privately in your own daily devotional time.

Sheep Hear His Voice

Devotions to Help You Recognize God’s Voice

Jesus says that, “My Sheep Hear My voice” in John chapter ten. This devotional book will help you draw closer to God in your daily life. These 30 meditations (one for each day of the month) focus on helping you access comfort, courage, and power for daily living. Topics include: belonging, acceptance, freedom from guilt, freedom from rejection, forgiveness, prayer, how to keep a positive mindset of faith, and resting in the peace of God. Each reading includes a color illustration and questions for reflection to help you deepen your connection to God. This book is also available on Kindle.

Insights into Faith

Insights into Faith is a Christian devotional book that examines how difficult it is for people to hold on to their faith when bad things happen. This devotional book comes out of Dr. Cooper’s experience counseling women who have wanted direction during their struggles. This inspirational book has 10 encouraging chapters with color illustrations to guide you into a deeper understanding of how

1. to recognize that the PRESENCE of God accompanies you in every trial of life,
2. to successfully navigate the losses and transitions of life without losing your FAITH, and
3. to anchor your HOPE in the goodness of God during difficult times.

Audiobooks

12 Steps to Survive a Break Up

You may feel devastated after a break up, divorce, or loss of an important friendship. This audiobook explains 12 steps to navigate your loss and begin to move forward again. Topics include how to release yourself from the emotional ties, stop blaming yourself for the end of the relationship, handle social media, use a journal to move towards closure, and avoid the most common pitfalls that can block your happiness. These are the steps that I have taught people in my counseling practice to help them survive a tragic loss, set better boundaries with romantic partners, and move forward with their lives.

How to STOP Self-Criticism

Many people have tremendous struggles with self-criticism. In this audio book, I outline 3 types of strategies to help you change your inner bully or self-critical attitudes. I explain the roots of self-criticism, journal strategies that will help you identify problems in your thinking, spiritual approaches to release your negative attitudes, strategies to begin using positive self-talk, and ways to establish positive supports to help you maintain your progress.

How to STOP Self-Criticism

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